From:       Newbie
Newsgroups: alt.sex.bondage
Subject:    For all bondage newbies Pt 1
Date:       20 Dec 1995

Hey all!

Finally got the knack of sending text files. :>

Here's the some more letters of question and answers between myself
and Master M1.  I hope it helps all newbies with their questions as
much as it has helped me.

Thanks to Master M1 for his time and patience.

Newbie

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NB>Thank you for taking the time to reply, and with such promptness.  Your
  >letter has, as you may very well see, brought to mind many questions.
  >Again, if you so desire, would you be able to take some time and satisfy the
  >eager curiosity of a newbie?

No problem, but would you mind if I posted this to ASB?

NB>>Thank you for that, it will, I feel, be a lifetime of happiness,
  >>pleasure and service from her to us all.

NB>Do you expect your relationship with S1 to last a full lifetime?  Do
  >you expect to be with S1 well after you are <forgive the expression>
  >old and grey?  ...or can you forsee a change of desire, either on your part
  >or that of S1's?

I sort of have a big grin on my face. Do I expect it to last a full 
lifetime. Yes, and at the same time no. I never "expect" I hope to work 
at it, and make it last a lifetime. Then the real smile part, "...after 
you are ... old and grey? Well at 55 some might think of me as old and
I am gray. But you know the funny thing my 23 year old slave used to 
say when I would ask, "Are you sure that you can love an old guy like 
me." That in many ways I was younger than her friends, had more 
vitality and interests, and could fuck with the best of them. <sticks 
chest, er,.., or is that dick out with pride>. Then a change of desire? 
Well, first, I did not fall in love with S1 the slave, rather with 
S1 the woman who also happens to be my property and slave. If 
there were a change in my desire, S1's job as my slave would be 
either to adapt to me, or inspire me to greater efforts through her use 
of her skills. Of course with age there may come infirmities, and/or 
other problems that I will learn about as I go though life. Timothy 
leary is dying and is planning to try and record his death as he has 
set down many of his experiences throughout his life...I would hope to
be able to report those things about S/M and how it changes, if it does 
with advancing age.

NB>How set is the slave/master in the relationship? If one desires to, can the
  >roles be reversed, or the relationship be terminated?

Gosh, (laughing) you really haven't been lurking much on ASB have you?

This has been an ongoing thread. I feel, well like how about NEVER! 
Then at the same time I have to remind you and yours that it is fine 
for those who like it that way and can handle it. As for termination, 
well a slave can be given her freedom, but I don't forsee it, but of 
course it is always possible that since I don't use safewords that one
day I go too far (have never had this experience and don't want it) and 
after the slave is released she looks upon me with horror, disgust, and 
lost love in her eyes, and says, "That is it, NEVER again, and BTW, 
don't even bother to call." That would be the ultimate "punishment" for 
a Master.

NB>How does this jealousy affect S1's relationship with M2 and
  >M3?  Obviously the three masters know of each other... how do you
  >determine the splitting of time with S1 amoungst yourselves? How do
  >you resolve conflicts, if any?

See S1's excellent answer to O1 in ASB. However, my line was 
not quoted in its totality, for if memory serves me correctly there is
no REAL jealousy that was a figure of speech.

NB>I have begun to do so... however the selection in the local adult shops is
  >so varied, I hardly know where to begin.  Can you suggest any
  >reading/videos?  As for your catalogue, I would be interested in obtaining a
  >copy.  What would I need to do?

So varied? Well of course so are scenes, relationships, etc. To get 
our catalog you need to send $4.95 to:
Bon-Vue Enterprises, Inc.
P.O. Box 92889
Long Beach, CA 90809

This assumes of course that you are a US resident.

NB>I live in the Ottawa, Ontario area.  I have seen in local newspapers "escort
  >services" which advertise as being dom or sub.  However, the price to
  >experiment has kept me from calling.  Can you suggest any other "economical"

"economical" is one thing that S/M etc. IMHO rarely are. The very 
nature of what we are precludes that. Equipment costs money, 
travel costs bucks, and slaves WANT in many cases and NEED in many cases 
to be dependent.

NB>ways to explore this?  How was it that you began?  As for exploring with a
  >girlfriend, unfortunately I have yet to find one who is willing to deviate
  >from a "normal" relationship.

Well I really don't know how I began. My earliest memory is 
masturbating to photos of women in bondage at around 4 or 5 years of 
age. As for getting the girlfriend to do it, well that does not 
surprise me since you, right now, are totally unsure of what you want,
and what you are.

NB>Thank you... I most likely will as it has given me a better insight and
  >healthy foothold on exploring this form of relationship.

I guess it is sort of implied that i could do so too, but I won't and 
will leave it up to you. But your permission would be appreciated.  BTW, 
a copy of this is going to some of my slaves.


M1
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